Is My Baby Reaching Their Developmental Milestones? A Parent's Guide from Birth to 2 Years

Watching your baby grow is one of life’s greatest joys. Every smile, roll, crawl and first step feels like a huge achievement. It’s also completely natural to compare your baby’s progress with other children or to wonder whether they are developing as expected.

The truth is that every child develops at their own pace. Some babies roll early but walk later, while others skip crawling altogether and go straight to walking. There is a wide range of what is considered typical development.

Understanding the expected developmental milestones can help you celebrate your baby’s achievements while recognising when extra support may be beneficial.

 

What are developmental milestones?

Developmental milestones are skills that most children achieve within a certain age range. They include:

  • Gross motor skills (rolling, sitting, crawling and walking)
  • Fine motor skills (grasping toys and feeding themselves)
  • Communication skills
  • Social and emotional development

As a paediatric physiotherapist, I mainly assess your child’s movement, posture, balance, coordination and strength. These movement milestones help us understand how your baby’s muscles, joints and nervous system are developing.

Remember that milestones are guides rather than strict deadlines. Reaching a skill a few weeks or even a couple of months earlier or later than another child is often perfectly normal.

 

Developmental milestones from birth to 2 years

Birth to 1 month

During the first few weeks your baby is adjusting to life outside the womb.

You may notice your baby:

  • Prefers a curled, flexed position
  • Turns their head to one side when lying on their tummy
  • Makes large, jerky arm and leg movements
  • Keeps their hands mostly closed
  • Begins to focus on faces
  • Starts to smile at parents and caregivers

This is also an excellent time to begin supervised tummy time for short periods throughout the day.

Around 3 months

By three months babies become much stronger.

Many babies can:

  • Hold their head in the middle when lying on their back
  • Bring their hands together
  • Hold their head steady when pulled into sitting
  • Lift their head and chest while lying on their tummy
  • Support themselves on their forearms
  • Kick both legs actively
  • Briefly hold a toy placed in their hand

Head control is an important foundation for later milestones such as sitting and crawling.

Around 5 to 6 months

Your baby becomes much more active and curious about the world.

Typical skills include:

  • Playing with their feet
  • Rolling from tummy to back and back to tummy
  • Sitting with support
  • Supporting themselves on straight arms during tummy time
  • Passing toys between their hands
  • Bringing objects to their mouth
  • Beginning to pivot on their tummy

Many parents become concerned if their baby has not rolled over by six months. Some babies simply prefer sitting or standing and achieve rolling later. What matters most is the overall pattern of movement and development rather than one isolated milestone.

Around 9 months

This is often an exciting stage as babies become mobile.

Many babies will:

  • Sit confidently without support
  • Reach for toys without losing balance
  • Move into sitting independently
  • Get onto hands and knees
  • Crawl, commando crawl, bottom shuffle or roll to move around
  • Pull themselves up to stand
  • Feed themselves finger foods
  • Begin using a spoon with help

It’s important to remember that babies move in different ways. Crawling is common, but some babies bottom shuffle or commando crawl before walking.

Around 12 months

First birthdays often bring first steps.

Many children can:

  • Crawl quickly
  • Pull themselves up at furniture
  • Cruise sideways along furniture
  • Lower themselves back to sitting
  • Stand briefly without support
  • Walk holding someone’s hands
  • Take independent first steps

Not every child walks by their first birthday. Many perfectly healthy children do not walk independently until 15 to 18 months.

Around 15 to 18 months

Confidence continues to grow.

Many toddlers can:

  • Walk independently
  • Stand up from the floor without help
  • Crawl upstairs
  • Kneel independently
  • Squat to pick up toys
  • Begin running
  • Walk upstairs with support

Walking becomes steadier as balance improves and arms gradually lower to the sides.

Around 2 years

By two years old many children are active explorers.

Most children can:

  • Run confidently
  • Walk upstairs and often downstairs with support
  • Kick and throw a ball
  • Ride a small ride-on toy or tricycle using their feet
  • Build a tower of several blocks
  • Begin using crayons with increasing control

At this age children are developing not only movement skills but also confidence, independence and problem-solving abilities.

When should I be concerned?

Every child develops differently, but there are times when an assessment is recommended.

Consider speaking to your GP, Health Visitor or a paediatric physiotherapist if your baby:

  • Has very floppy or very stiff muscles
  • Strongly prefers using one side of their body
  • Is unable to hold their head up by around 4 months
  • Is not rolling by around 8 months and shows little interest in moving
  • Cannot sit independently by around 9 months
  • Is not attempting to move around the floor by around 10 to 12 months
  • Is not pulling to stand by around 12 months
  • Is not walking independently by around 18 months
  • Loses skills they were previously able to do

One milestone alone is rarely a cause for alarm. We always look at the whole child, including their strength, balance, muscle tone, coordination and overall development.

What if my baby skips crawling?

This is one of the most common questions parents ask.

Some babies never crawl in the traditional hands-and-knees position. Instead they may:

  • Bottom shuffle
  • Commando crawl
  • Roll across the floor
  • Move straight from sitting to walking

Many of these children develop perfectly normally.

However, crawling helps develop shoulder strength, trunk stability, coordination and bilateral movement. If your child skips crawling completely, it can sometimes be helpful to have their movement assessed, particularly if there are other developmental concerns.

How can I support my baby’s development?

You don’t need expensive equipment or structured classes.

The best opportunities for development happen during everyday play.

Try to:

  • Allow plenty of supervised floor time
  • Encourage daily tummy time from birth
  • Let your baby move freely without spending long periods in containers such as bouncers
  • Place toys just out of reach to encourage movement
  • Read, sing and talk to your baby regularly
  • Celebrate effort rather than perfection

Children learn best through play, exploration and repetition.

How can a paediatric physiotherapist help?

A paediatric physiotherapist can assess your child’s movement in detail and determine whether their development is progressing as expected.

During an assessment we look at:

  • Gross motor development
  • Muscle tone
  • Balance
  • Coordination
  • Strength
  • Range of movement
  • Quality of movement
  • Symmetry
  • Functional skills

If needed, we provide an individualised treatment programme designed around your child’s needs and your family’s daily routine.

Early intervention can often help children build confidence, improve movement and prevent small difficulties from becoming bigger challenges later on.

 

Frequently Asked Questions

Is it normal for babies to develop at different speeds?

Yes. Every child develops at their own pace. Some reach milestones earlier and others later while remaining within the normal range.

My baby hates tummy time. What should I do?

Start with very short periods several times a day. You can also try tummy time on your chest, across your lap or while using a rolled towel under the chest to make it more comfortable.

Should I worry if my baby isn’t walking at 12 months?

Not necessarily. Many healthy children begin walking between 12 and 18 months. If your child is approaching 18 months and still isn’t walking independently, an assessment is recommended.

Does my baby have to crawl?

No. Some babies use alternative ways to move. However, if your baby is not attempting any form of movement around the floor or has other developmental concerns, it is worth seeking professional advice.

Supporting your child’s journey

Watching your child grow is exciting, and it’s natural to wonder whether they are developing as expected.

Remember that milestones are guides, not deadlines. Every child has their own unique journey.

If you ever have concerns about your child’s movement, posture, balance or physical development, seeking advice early can provide reassurance and, where needed, timely support.

At Florikids Physiotherapy, we provide specialist paediatric physiotherapy assessments for babies and children from birth to 16 years across Northampton, Milton Keynes, Towcester, Daventry, Rugby and the surrounding areas.

If you’re unsure whether your child’s development is on track, we’d be happy to help.